Your baby needs massage for more Oxytocin hormone!

What is Oxytocin?

Oxytocin is the hormone which is responsible for making your baby feels warm and loving feeling while holding him or even breastfeeding him.

How can I help with the Oxytocin hormone?

Making massage to your baby and the loving touches of your hands and fingers can help with this. You can gently and rhythmically massage your baby's body. That will make him feel comfortable and there will be exchange of loving feelings between you and your baby. Your massage to the baby is the best thing you can do for this warm and inner loving feelings.

What other benefits of baby massage?

Baby massage has lots of benefits such as;

-    Baby massage helps your baby to grow and thrive.
-    Baby massage strengthens his attachment to you.
-    Baby massages helps him to relax and not upset.
-    Baby massage helps him to cry less.
-    Baby massage makes him sleep better.

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How can I make a timeline style for my baby?

First of all, put into your consideration that it is very normal matter for newborn babies to have their own unpredictable habits of sleeping and nutrition. They may also mix the day and the night times. So, don't interrupt their timeline style with sudden changes. Be patient, it is a matter of time to let him follow the timeline you desire with some little effort from you.

In fact, you have to respect his timeline style and try to watch and notice carefully all the indications he sends to tell you he is hungry, or that he got his satisfaction of his meal.

After good understanding of his indications, there are some things you can do for lobbing your baby and making him follow a table of particular timeline style. Let's see how we can do this;

Modify his schedule in a regular way, step by step.

Bath your baby and take him out for a walk for some time at the same time every day. This is what we call (Learning in conjunction). This will make your baby be used to the daily routine idea. He will feel comfortable to this idea. Thus you have started to make him get used to and understand that life is a set of routine business. This will make it easy later to modify all his schedule timeline style concerning all his matters such as sleeping, nutrition … etc.

Modify his timeline style concerning breastfeeding!

Sometimes you notice that your child sleep at the end of breastfeeding process. Here, he gives you indication that he got enough. Sometimes he sleeps during the breastfeeding process without getting his complete meal. He does this just get some sleep and get up again after half an hour to complete his meal as he is still hungry. So, during lactation don't feed him to glut if he is still awake, because in this case, he stopped because he got enough. But if you noticed that he is going to sleep, try to be sure he got enough before sleeping and don't let him sleep by playing some dynamic music which takes his attention, talk to him, or even change his diaper in the middle of the meal.

During breastfeeding try to offer both breasts and be sure he got his complete meal. This will make him sleep longer between meals. If your child is a weak sucker, you have to massage your breast yourself to make it easy for the baby to get his enough.

Remember that there are Individual differences among babies. Some babies are able to empty the breast completely within 4 to 5 minutes, others take about 15 to 20 minutes to do.

Pay attention to your baby's routine,

When your child is newborn baby, feed him whenever you notice that he is hungry. That may happen 12 times a day during the first few weeks. It will reach gradually to 18 times a day. Here you have to begin thinking of making a suitable timeline style for his nutrition.

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Let your child learn from his mistakes!

                I know that it is very hard for most of us to sit back and let his child do mistakes without directing his deeds and behaviors.

                In fact, we need to do that and bite our tongue for some time giving them the chance to make mistakes that we will use later to help them learn from their mistakes. And then we can guide the behavior and actions. I agree with you that this is not easy to do at all, but let's learn how to do.

Just let your child do his own matters;

                Let your child do his/her things such as homework, science experiment, art project or whatever he/she does.

Watch his behaviors only;

                Just watch, don't offer any help, because such homework is for the child to practice and for his teacher to know what the child already had learned and which points need some more work.

Later be your child's guide;

In other words, help your child to learn how to learn. While watching your child behavior, you should be thinking how would you guide him when time comes. Use some phrases like: "What do you think if you do it like that?" , "How could we figure that out?" , and so on. This will help him to think of problems and give his own opinion to solve them. This is the ideal way to help your child learn how to learn.

Share your child his games;

                Let your child lose his game. Later, share him his game in order to let him win, but in a strategic way. It won't be a real wining for your child, but you lose to let him learn how to strengthen his strategies and see that he can learn from other people.

Finally, I agree with you it is not so easy at all to sit back like this watching our childs frustration. But we need to do just to let them learn themselves how to learn.

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Let's know how our kids learn!

                Let's remind you at first that when you notice your kid's wide-eyed and curious gaze, this means that he/she is experiencing something for the first time.

                New things always make their learning process continue in an infinite way and that matter makes their learning interact with the world around them.

                For babies, talking in the world around them is like something happening around you very fast and you are trying to understand what happens. They same thing for them, they are trying to absorb and understand as much as they can, so as to prioritize their connections the matter which helps them navigate their world in better way while they grow.

                So, for babies, the most important thing for their learning is that there should be a safe space and environment for them to explore and continue learning.

                Give your babies the safe space and environment to help them go on learning.

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Every mother all over the world always hear different advice about their babies, what they need, how to deal with them, how to care about them ... etc. But in fact you are the best of them who knows your baby just as you do. So, trust what you think about your baby concerning what he/she needs, what he/she loves, how he/she plays, how he/she sleeps.

 

 

 

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