A discussion about bringing up our children!

Bringing up our children is not so easy, it is most responsible and satisfying task we do in our life. We can say that it is the job which has the priority of our responsibilities in life.

Usually, our knowledge about raising children comes from our surroundings and our parents' raising us experience. This experience which they acquired from their own parents. It is just a social experience repeated from generation to the following one until it reached or children.

 

We have to consider that we role models!

We have to realize that parents are the most effective role models our children can have. If we show respect, kindness, honesty, friendliness, hospitality, and generosity to our children that will encourage them to have us as role models and behave in the same way as we do.

So, we should express our unconditional love for our children. Also we should provide them with continued support they may need to have self confidence and happiness.

 

Ethical boundaries are necessary to be reasonable!

Ethical Discipline is crucial specially while bringing up our children. Our children should learn reasonable ethical boundaries as you’re your children learn through discipline, they learn and understand well that some behaviors are acceptable and other behaviors are unacceptable.

Thus, setting ethical boundaries for our children do help them to know and learn how to behave in their society and surroundings.

The difficulty of setting discipline is that it needs consistency. Parents' job is twenty four hours job, and the e rules of the role model should be applied all the time.

Put into your mind! and remember very well!, inconsistency and the absence of discipline create confused and rootless children. So, parents must put in the effort every time to provide consistent ethical boundaries to their own children.

The absence of children and parents from each other!

The time which both parents and children spend with each other is very valuable. Nowadays, it's very difficult to find time to spend together with each other as a family. Usually, parents are involved in their work which limits their time preventing them from having enough time to spend with their children. Moreover, children too are involved in their school and other homework and different activities.

Try, as much as you can, to save some time, such as during breakfast time or lunch time while your family is together, especially if you understood that fixed routines are very important for children.

Mealtimes are very important. They can provide you with a perfect opportunity to talk about each other about you daily life matters, events, everyday situations … etc. Everyone should participate the conversation and parents should pay attention and show their interest in what they are saying.

You should make that as a family rule that all family members eat together and stay at the table until everyone else has finished eating his meal. This will give a good chance to have a good period of time and a good opportunity for conversation.

One of most times children prefer is to have a special day which is reserved for special activities. For example; one day of the week with father in the library afternoon, or a day of the week swimming with Mum. Also, we can specify a day for family ties which strengthen families' relationships. Moreover, we have to give the children to take part in planning activities.

Train your children how to think and talk!

Offering explanations will help children work matters out for themselves. Take time to point out how things are connected, for example, in terms of cause and effect.

Parents, who think out loud with their children, will see them develop a similar train of thought. They will learn to talk and think in a more sophisticated way.

If parents express emotions and feelings, their children will learn it's okay to do the same.
When your children want to talk or ask questions, encourage them. If you're dismissive, or always say you're too busy, they may express frustration and stop wanting to share their thoughts and feelings.

If the family has a problem that concerns your child, involve them in the discussion. Try to find possible solutions together with him or her.

When discussing options, also talk about consequences. The possible outcome will influence your final decision. Be open to the child's suggestions. Let them take part in the negotiations and the decision.

A child who experiences this kind of communication will become confident and learn the rules of good communication.

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Let your child learn from his mistakes!

                I know that it is very hard for most of us to sit back and let his child do mistakes without directing his deeds and behaviors.

                In fact, we need to do that and bite our tongue for some time giving them the chance to make mistakes that we will use later to help them learn from their mistakes. And then we can guide the behavior and actions. I agree with you that this is not easy to do at all, but let's learn how to do.

Just let your child do his own matters;

                Let your child do his/her things such as homework, science experiment, art project or whatever he/she does.

Watch his behaviors only;

                Just watch, don't offer any help, because such homework is for the child to practice and for his teacher to know what the child already had learned and which points need some more work.

Later be your child's guide;

In other words, help your child to learn how to learn. While watching your child behavior, you should be thinking how would you guide him when time comes. Use some phrases like: "What do you think if you do it like that?" , "How could we figure that out?" , and so on. This will help him to think of problems and give his own opinion to solve them. This is the ideal way to help your child learn how to learn.

Share your child his games;

                Let your child lose his game. Later, share him his game in order to let him win, but in a strategic way. It won't be a real wining for your child, but you lose to let him learn how to strengthen his strategies and see that he can learn from other people.

Finally, I agree with you it is not so easy at all to sit back like this watching our childs frustration. But we need to do just to let them learn themselves how to learn.

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Let's know how our kids learn!

                Let's remind you at first that when you notice your kid's wide-eyed and curious gaze, this means that he/she is experiencing something for the first time.

                New things always make their learning process continue in an infinite way and that matter makes their learning interact with the world around them.

                For babies, talking in the world around them is like something happening around you very fast and you are trying to understand what happens. They same thing for them, they are trying to absorb and understand as much as they can, so as to prioritize their connections the matter which helps them navigate their world in better way while they grow.

                So, for babies, the most important thing for their learning is that there should be a safe space and environment for them to explore and continue learning.

                Give your babies the safe space and environment to help them go on learning.

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Welcome to sweetie kids and beloved babies area!

Every mother all over the world always hear different advice about their babies, what they need, how to deal with them, how to care about them ... etc. But in fact you are the best of them who knows your baby just as you do. So, trust what you think about your baby concerning what he/she needs, what he/she loves, how he/she plays, how he/she sleeps.

 

 

 

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